| Location | Bolton |
| Age | 83 years |
| Date of Birth | 10/1922 |
| Date of Death | 6/2006 |
| Visitors | 3,054 since 18/08/2007 |
| Creator |
I would like to dedicate this site to my beautiful handsome grandad, Walter Hargreaves who was sadly taken from us on 17th June 2006 in his 83rd year.
My grandad passed away in Bolton hospice after a brave battle with lung cancer, today he lives on through his daughter, son, grandchildren and great grandchildren.
My grandad was my best friend, dad and hero rolled into one and i was so lucky to share such a strong bond with him that i will always be eternally grateful that he was mine. He is never far from my thoughts and i am honoured to have had him in my life.
I know that its not likely i will ever experience the kind of love i have for my grandad again but i find this to be the most fitting way to pay tribute to such a fantastic, loving and proud man.
They say times a healer, we're still waiting x x x
Just a big thank you to all that have left candles for my dear grandad, i have been struggling alot recently as i got married and really wanted grandad there, so please do not think i have not been thinking of you all, i have, take care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sadly my nana Joyce hughes (bolton) passed away 16th october 2007, she to has a site please feel free to leave her a candle, god bless x
happy birthday grand
Hi Grand
wishing you happy birthday hope you manage to get your two pints at 10 !
love and miss you all the world
Ria x x x
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This Basket Of Burdens
Ⓒ Debbie
My Basket of burdens
Is filled with the grief of my loss
It is so heavy to carry
Although this road I must cross.
This pathway through life
Feels unbearable at times
And I don’t have the strength
For this mountain I climb.
The Basket’s filled with sorrow
Oh, how I miss my love
At first,
It’s impossible to carry,
Where is my help from above?
It’s draining my strength
I can’t do anymore
This pain goes so deep
Right down to my core.
As I carry this Basket
I’ll learn to manage the weight
Each step of the way
Will become easier they say.
But how do they know,
Have they been here before?
If so, where’s their Basket
They’re responsible for?
This Basket of burdens
You can’t see and can’t touch
I carry it inside me
This pain is too much.
Patience is needed to carry
This loss that I feel
A shoulder to lean on
So, someday I will heal.
God sent my family
My friends and spirits unknown
So, I won’t carry this Basket
Forever alone
Someday,
I’ll lay down my Basket
With burdens’ no more
My pain will be gone
When, I cross through that door
Then I’ll know reason
For my Basket of Burdens
How God showed me His grace
When I couldn’t cope with the season
Love and support that He gave
When His presence felt unknown
He was with me each step
When I felt so alone.
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• ♥ • Echoing Memories • ♥ •
Antiques, old things,
Whispers of the past;
Fashioned by true craftsmen,
So they will last and last.
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Oak sheen, lacy things,
Wonderful old glass;
Evident pride and workmanship
In every cut and cast.
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I wander, through these lovely things,
While memories crowd my mind
They are the treasures, of a lifetime,
That my family left behind.
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Each loved one still is with me.
For, the memories never cease;
Of those dear, departed, loved ones
Who rest in blissful total peace.
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• ♥ • Ⓒ 2001 by Chris T. Johnson • ♥ •
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Song of my Soul
Ⓒ Ferna Lary Mills
The songs are all off key
The words just will not rhyme
The melody means nothing to me
The rhythm is not keeping time
The comfort just isn't there
The grief overshadows all
The spirit cries in despair
The clock slows down to a crawl
The span of my grief is immense
The heart is engulfed in gloom
The pain in my soul is intense
The song of my soul out of tune.
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✿⊹✿ When you lose someone you love ✿⊹✿
Ⓒ 2004 Jacklynn MacKenzie
The sharp edge of pain becomes dull in time,
But the hurt lingers on in our hearts our life long.
It's our "intimate" companion, but we wish it would leave,
However, it's part of life for us who grieve.
We can't let the hurt take control of our lives,
And yet there are so many times -
That we sit, and we cry and remember the past,
But we must find comfort in the things that last.
Things like love and faith, like trust and hope,
Like courage and strength to help us cope,
When we feel so empty and all alone -
When God has called our loved one Home.
Our thoughts become much deeper;
Our lives change in so many ways -
We participate, we laugh, we cry and go along our way;
No one knows the emptiness
We feel within our hearts;
Only God can heal the pain,
And His peace to us impart.
So, if you've lost someone you love
Who was so very dear,
I pray that God will comfort you,
For He is always near.
He's only just a whisper of a prayer away from you,
And He wants to take your burdens away, and be your friend so true.
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❧ My Most Painful Love ❧
Ⓒ Melissa Pena
On the stormy gray day you went away,
Crystal clear pure tears were shed from my face,
How will I survive without you today?
I stand here longing for your own embrace.
The things I shouldn't have left unspoken;
All the memories I can’t remember;
Leave me with my heart bleeding wide open
To see your pale eyes again glow amber,
Would fulfil my most genuine of wills.
To you I said I would not bid adieu.
I’ve made you a promise that remains still,
When spoken it was true I hope you knew.
I’ll remember you even if it pains,
My love for you will forever remain.
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Turning Back Time
Where would you go if we could turn back time?
And, just where, in life, would you stop?
Would you relive some moment that's special to you,
Perhaps say something you had forgot?
For me, if I could I'd be surrounded by family
And tell them how I love them so,
I would say all the things that I could have once said;
But was too late when their time came to go.
Oh, yes, I think of the opportunities I've had
To express understanding and compassion.
How sad that those words just never came out,
The one's I could not seem to fashion.
But, is it really too late to say all the things,
That we failed to imply at the time?
Words that were left hanging on the tips of our tongue,
Can now be relayed through our mind.
Repeat, to yourself, all the words that you kept
And transfer them to those whom you wish.
You won't see them, like you could back in time,
But will be heard by those whom you miss.
Ⓒ 2003 Valentyne Lang
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Swim Free Little Dolphin
You are so very much a part of us,
We will cherish & hold you near,
They say everything has a reason,
Even if right now its not that clear.
So when we look deep down within,
We’ll feel your strength inside.
and when we need to know you’re close,
We’ll feel you by our side.
So swim free our little dolphin,
In Heaven’s ocean above,
Swim free our beautiful dolphin,
With all our blessings and love.
(Author Unknown)
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An Eternal Bond
Ⓒ Ferna Lary Mills
There is a bond that you can't see
for it's not bound with twine.
It's formed from strands within our souls,
this love that's yours and mine.
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When I went home to be with God,
you must now understand,
I took with me this bond of love
and I still hold that strand.
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So look now at my photograph.
The smile, you'll quickly see.
But only hearts can see the strand
forever binding You and Me.
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Enjoy the precious memories
although we are apart.
We'll share more joys again one day.
I believe that with all my heart!
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How Do You Do?
How do you describe an empty heart
Or a mind that will not sleep?
How do you measure the depth of pain
Or the volume of tears that weep?
How do you find new direction
When life's compass has no reference points?
How do you energise listless limbs
With death's arthritic joints?
How do you see the future
Through a lens of opaque glass?
How do you reconcile his name
On a plaque of tarnished brass?
How do you rekindle interest
In a life that was complete?
How do you overcome loss and pain
And the desire for social retreat?
How do you explain to those you know
The pretence that you have to project?
How do you smile when expected to
But your facial muscles object?
How do you trust a God you once knew
Or the power of goodness and prayer?
How you put your faith in his hands
When those hands threw the switch of despair?
How do you absorb the colours of Spring
Through eyes that see only black?
How do you control the endless pain
Of wishing he was back?
-- David T. Kerry
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
Angel On My Shoulder
There's an Angel on my shoulder and I know it must be you,
A whisper in my ear from a voice I always knew.
Sometimes a gentle breeze, where it never should have been,
You let me know you're with me from a place where time begins.
A touch when no one's there, a flicker in my eye,
a rainbow where a storm had been, in a dark and rolling sky.
I know you are my angel, and your heart goes on in me
your love shines down around me from a place I cannot see.
Some may think I'm crazy, some may not believe,
but I can feel your spirit, I know you'll never leave.
Your wings wrap me in warmth, your halo shows me light,
Your whispers keep me safe, in the darkness of the night.
It really does not matter,
That no one else can see.
Just like in the days before,
It is always you and me.
-Author Unknown-
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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